Life After Divorce I graduated High School Spring of 1971. I lived at home while I took a year off school and worked as receptionist in my Dad’s Volkswagen dealership to, as my Dad said, “gain some real world experience”. Mom and Dad were divorced in July, 1972, after 22 years of marriage. Us 5Continue reading “Blog Post # 39: My Mom: Miriam Elizabeth Hall Gateley, Part 8 – Life After Marriage”
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Blog Post # 38: My Mom: Miriam Elizabeth Hall Gateley, Part 7 – Married Life
The Cliffhanger Ending Last blog post I left you with a cliffhanger. “After working two years and saving for college Mother decided we needed a bigger house because Erica and Parker were coming to live with us. Mother asked me for my college savings to make a down payment on a bigger house, so IContinue reading “Blog Post # 38: My Mom: Miriam Elizabeth Hall Gateley, Part 7 – Married Life”
Blog Post # 37: My Mom: Miriam Elizabeth Hall Gateley; Part 6 – Young Girl to Young Adult
Growing Up Mom told me stories of when she was a girl and a young woman. I wish I would have asked her for more. The following are a few I found on her computer after she died. When Mom was a girl living in Tulsa, Oklahoma, she had a life-long close friend, Emma Sue. Continue reading “Blog Post # 37: My Mom: Miriam Elizabeth Hall Gateley; Part 6 – Young Girl to Young Adult”
Blog Post # 36: My Mom: Miriam Elizabeth Hall Gateley, Part 5 – Parker and Erica
The Rest of Uncle Parker’s Story Back in 2002 my sister Deborah made a book all about our Uncle Parker. Here are excerpts from it. When Parker was in high school he taught himself morse code and made a short wave radio. He loved using that radio. One day some men showed up at theContinue reading “Blog Post # 36: My Mom: Miriam Elizabeth Hall Gateley, Part 5 – Parker and Erica”
Blog Post # 35: My Mom: Miriam Elizabeth Hall Gateley, Part 4 – Parker and Mom
Mom and My Uncle Parker Mom was only 14, almost 15 years old when her brother Parker died fighting in the war in Germany. Parker was not quite 22, only about a month and 3 weeks before his 22nd birthday. As a reminder from where Parker’s story began in my previous blog https://mylifebydag.blog/2020/12/18/blog-post-34-my-mom-miriam-elizabeth-hall-gateley-part-3/, here isContinue reading “Blog Post # 35: My Mom: Miriam Elizabeth Hall Gateley, Part 4 – Parker and Mom”
Blog Post # 34: My Mom: Miriam Elizabeth Hall Gateley, 3 – Parker and Helen
My Uncle Parker and Cousin Helen My Uncle Parker (Mom’s brother) died in WW II, long before I was born. Yet Mom talked of him so often I realize how much of an impact he still made on both of our lives. In researching Parker’s story, I was also reminded of another reality that IContinue reading “Blog Post # 34: My Mom: Miriam Elizabeth Hall Gateley, 3 – Parker and Helen”
Blog Post # 33: My Mom: Miriam Elizabeth Hall Gateley, 2 – 1st thru 8th Grades
Mom’s 1st thru 8th Grades Welcome to Part 2 of my Mom’s life. As Part 1 was from her birth thru 1st grade (last week’s blog post, https://mylifebydag.blog/2020/12/04/blog-post-32-my-mom-miriam-elizabeth-hall-gateley-part-1/ ), Part 2 will continue her story from 2nd to 8th grade. (Note to family members: Please let me know if you remember something differently or somethingContinue reading “Blog Post # 33: My Mom: Miriam Elizabeth Hall Gateley, 2 – 1st thru 8th Grades”
Blog Post # 32: My Mom: Miriam Elizabeth Hall Gateley, 1 – Early Life
Mom’s Early Life Regular readers of this blog know my Mom comes up fairly often. As she played such a key role in so much of my life, I thought it fitting to include more about hers. Some of this information comes from my memory, and some from her own writings. (Note to family members:Continue reading “Blog Post # 32: My Mom: Miriam Elizabeth Hall Gateley, 1 – Early Life”
Blog Post # 31: Suicide! In Memory of My Great-niece Mia
Why do people self destruct? My great-niece Mia was beautiful, talented, kind, generous and smart. Last week she took her own life. She was 22 years old. Why do people self destruct? Grief? Rage? Depression? Stress? Brain damage? Anxiety? No more optimism? No more hope? To end unbearable pain? Mental illness? Whatever the reasons, myContinue reading “Blog Post # 31: Suicide! In Memory of My Great-niece Mia”
Blog Post # 30: Remembering My First Birthday Without My Mom
A Birthday Poem Do you enjoy birthdays? One of my favorite parts is logging onto Facebook to find so many Happy Birthday Wishes. Whether from posts, replies to birthday posts, or private messages, it’s a great way to enjoy my day! Every year I am also reminded of my birthday in 2003. It was aContinue reading “Blog Post # 30: Remembering My First Birthday Without My Mom”